I went in for a routine baby checkup, ready for cute sonogram pics and a stress-free day. Instead? Surprise contractions, high blood pressure, and an overnight stay. Apparently, my body RSVP’d to labor early—and forgot to tell me.

They said breastfeeding would be natural. Beautiful, even. But no one warned me about the nipple pain, the panic sweats, or my baby looking at me like I owed her answers. It took two months, a lot of pumping, and even more self-doubt before things finally clicked. This is the real story of how it started—messy, loud, and far from perfect.

Pregnancy made my toothbrush my worst enemy. Here’s how even my morning routine turned into a battle—and what that taught me about early motherhood.