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Where Has Our Community Gone? A Mother’s Call for Kindness
Motherhood isn’t an Olympic competition — yet somewhere along the way, we started treating it like one. This post is a gentle reminder to be softer with ourselves, kinder to one another, and rebuild the community mothers have always deserved.
Talaya Murphy
Nov 252 min read


The Postpartum Depression No One Talks About
Postpartum depression isn’t just sadness. It can be rage, acne, anxiety, guilt — and it can last years. Let’s talk honestly about what new mothers really go through.
Talaya Murphy
Oct 132 min read


Breaking the Mold: Being the Sole Breadwinner in a Modern Family
The image of men earning and women staying home is fading fast. Women are stepping up as primary breadwinners in more households and I’m one of them. Here’s my story of breaking tradition, managing the stress, and redefining what family balance really means.
Talaya Murphy
Sep 302 min read


Pulled in Every Direction: Balancing the Needs of Others Without Losing Myself
Motherhood has a way of pulling you in every direction at once partner, parent, friend, worker, caregiver, and somewhere in the shuffle, your own needs get pushed to the bottom of the list. In this post, I share what I’ve learned about finding balance, setting boundaries, and protecting my energy so I can show up not just for everyone else, but for myself too.
Talaya Murphy
Sep 153 min read


The Last Days of Me: Reflections on My Third Trimester
The third trimester feels like standing at the edge of a cliff; equal parts fear, awe, and transformation. These are my reflections on the last days of “me” and the birth of someone new.
Talaya Murphy
Sep 103 min read


Always One Step Behind: The Ever-Changing Pace of Parenthood
Parenthood in the first year is like running a race against your baby just when you think you’ve caught up, they change the pace, the course, and the finish line. From naps to bedtime routines to food, nothing stays the same for long. But maybe that’s the beauty of it.
Talaya Murphy
Sep 82 min read


Twists, Turns, and Motherhood: Healing My Inner Child While Raising My Own
Motherhood didn’t come wrapped in picture-perfect joy for me. It’s been messy, healing, and sometimes triggering. But every laugh, tantrum, and bedtime story teaches me not only how to mother my daughter—but also how to mother myself.
Talaya Murphy
Sep 22 min read


Living Paycheck to Paycheck: How Childhood Lessons Shape Our Money Struggles as Adults
Money has always felt like a shadow in my family’s story. From childhood sacrifices to adulthood struggles, I’ve seen how the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck repeats itself when financial literacy isn’t taught. Here’s my story — and why I believe breaking the cycle starts with access, education, and rewriting the playbook for the next generation.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 183 min read


Working Mom Guilt: When Being There Comes with a Price Tag
When I was a kid, my mom could show up for every school trip and PTA meeting. Today, childcare costs alone can feel like a second rent, forcing many working moms into tough trade-offs. This is the reality of parenting in 2025—where guilt, love, and hope all compete for space in our hearts.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 143 min read


When Is the Right Time to Have a Baby? Spoiler: It Doesn’t Exist
There’s no letter, no perfect moment, no magical sign that tells you when to have a baby. For years, I thought there would be. Now I know that parenthood doesn’t wait for perfect timing — it waits for love, grit, and a willingness to grow alongside your child.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 113 min read


What Breastfeeding Taught Me About Patience, Pain, and Power
They don’t tell you that breastfeeding isn’t just about milk. It’s about surrendering your body all over again, learning to trust it, and finding quiet strength in the most exhausting moments of motherhood.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 73 min read


The Invisible Load of Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding isn’t just about milk—it’s a mental, emotional, and physical marathon. From planning every outing around feeds to battling guilt when your body doesn’t produce “enough,” today’s post is for the moms carrying it all.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 63 min read


Breastfeeding Is Natural… But That Doesn’t Make It Easy
Breastfeeding is natural—but no one talks about how hard it can be. This post is for the sore, sleep-deprived, second-guessing mamas: you're doing amazing.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 53 min read


Shoutout to Single and Young Moms: I See You, I Appreciate You
Being a mom has opened my eyes to the strength it takes to raise a child—especially alone. This post is for the single moms and young moms doing it all. I see you, and I honor you.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 42 min read


Roommates with a Baby: Navigating Love, Exhaustion, and the Newborn Fog
No one warns you that having a baby can turn your love life into a rotating shift schedule. Between sleepless nights, emotional landmines, and the endless “whose turn is it?” debates, it’s easy to become more roommates than romantic partners. Here’s how we’re learning to stay connected—even when we’re running on coffee and chaos.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 313 min read


Parenting with Grace: Breaking Cycles, Not Ourselves
We grow up saying we won’t be like our parents. Then we become parents ourselves—and everything shifts. This post explores the moment I realized my mom was just a girl trying her best, and how I’m parenting with more empathy, awareness, and grace to do things differently.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 282 min read


Millennial Motherhood: The Playbook is Outdated and So Are the Rules
At 31, I’ve followed all the rules—college, career, hard work—yet I’m still living paycheck to paycheck. This is millennial motherhood: unfiltered, raw, and real. The old playbook doesn’t work anymore. I’m rewriting it in real-time—for me and my daughter.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 253 min read


Fragile, Fearful, and Figuring It Out: Letting Go of Expectations in New Motherhood
As a first-time mom, I expected to feel joy—but instead, I felt fear. From dodging bath time to grieving unmet expectations, I’m learning that motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about grace, growth, and doing the best we can with shaky hands and full hearts.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 243 min read


Choosing Her Safety: How I Faced the Unexpected in Labor, Well C-Section
After hours of Pitocin and no progress, I had to make a decision that shifted everything. This is the story of how I delivered my daughter via C-section—full of fear, strength, and love.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 213 min read


The Day Before the Real Countdown Began
I went in for a routine baby checkup, ready for cute sonogram pics and a stress-free day. Instead? Surprise contractions, high blood pressure, and an overnight stay. Apparently, my body RSVP’d to labor early—and forgot to tell me.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 162 min read
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