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Pulled in Every Direction: Balancing the Needs of Others Without Losing Myself
Motherhood has a way of pulling you in every direction at once partner, parent, friend, worker, caregiver, and somewhere in the shuffle, your own needs get pushed to the bottom of the list. In this post, I share what I’ve learned about finding balance, setting boundaries, and protecting my energy so I can show up not just for everyone else, but for myself too.
Talaya Murphy
Sep 153 min read


Living Paycheck to Paycheck: How Childhood Lessons Shape Our Money Struggles as Adults
Money has always felt like a shadow in my family’s story. From childhood sacrifices to adulthood struggles, I’ve seen how the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck repeats itself when financial literacy isn’t taught. Here’s my story — and why I believe breaking the cycle starts with access, education, and rewriting the playbook for the next generation.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 183 min read


The Weight of Enough
In one year, I became a fiancée, a mother, and a woman carrying the full weight of adulthood. I’m still figuring out who I am and if “enough” even exists.
Talaya Murphy
Aug 152 min read


Fragile, Fearful, and Figuring It Out: Letting Go of Expectations in New Motherhood
As a first-time mom, I expected to feel joy—but instead, I felt fear. From dodging bath time to grieving unmet expectations, I’m learning that motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about grace, growth, and doing the best we can with shaky hands and full hearts.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 243 min read


Choosing Her Safety: How I Faced the Unexpected in Labor, Well C-Section
After hours of Pitocin and no progress, I had to make a decision that shifted everything. This is the story of how I delivered my daughter via C-section—full of fear, strength, and love.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 213 min read


This Is Really Happening: The Night I Was Admitted
Calm on the outside, spiraling inside. A late-night Uber to the hospital led to a whirlwind of vitals, monitors, needles, and the terrifying realization: I might actually leave with a baby in my arms. Part 3 of my birth story takes you inside the moment labor truly began—complete with sarcasm, sidebars, and a whole lot of heart.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 184 min read


The Weight of Motherhood While in Pain
A raw, honest reflection on motherhood, pain, and being dismissed in the healthcare system as a Black woman.
Talaya Murphy
Jul 12 min read


When the System Fails You – A Black Mother’s Hospital Experience
A raw look into my recent hospital stay as a Black mother, the fear of not being heard, and the emotional toll of nearly missing my daughter’s first birthday.
Talaya Murphy
Jun 304 min read
A Letter to Myself
A heartfelt letter to my past self—reflecting on love, loss, motherhood, and the unexpected beauty of growth through life’s challenges.
Talaya Murphy
Jun 131 min read


Embracing the Journey Ahead, Kind of
A raw, honest, and hilarious look into the early days of my unexpected pregnancy—from five tests and nonstop peeing to navigating symptoms, passport panic, and ER visits. Welcome to the chaos (and beauty) of becoming a mom.
Talaya Murphy
Jun 123 min read


“So... You're Going to Be a Grandma”: A Moment I’ll Never Forget
Telling my mom I was pregnant wasn’t what I expected—no lecture, no drama. Just love, laughter, and a reminder that I’m not a kid anymore.
Talaya Murphy
Jun 122 min read


29-Year-Old Teen Mom
At 14, I promised myself I’d wait until life was “perfect” before becoming a mom. At 29, I found myself pregnant, scared, and right back in that emotional space. This is the story of breaking the news, wrestling with fear, and choosing to embrace a future I never expected—but somehow, still feels like mine.
Talaya Murphy
Jun 114 min read


When Everything Changed
The moment I handed my boyfriend a positive pregnancy test, everything shifted. What followed was a flood of emotions, five tests, and the undeniable truth: life as I knew it was changing forever. This is the story of how I moved from denial to reality—with love, fear, and a whole lot of pee sticks in between.
Talaya Murphy
Jun 102 min read
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